And I'm not ashamed of it. But wow, do we raise eyebrows. Some people actually believe it is wrong to let children share their parents' beds because...children won't learn independence early...
Damn independence.
1. These kids sooner or later would not want to live under the same roof as their parents. So why the rush?
2. New studies show that it is actually good to give children security than to rush them to early independence.
3. I know several Filipino families who share bed with their kids - and their kids turn out maure, independent, tough and happy. So I don't see any disadvantage at all.
Except for the parents. They don't have much privacy.
But listen, whenenver my baby crawls towards me for a hug - and falls back to sleep while hugging me - this is one golden piece of memory that can never be replaced.
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